In Mount Zion has a guest post that is awesome!
I will paraphrase a little, but seriously go to that blog and read the post.
Some of us are frustrated, the post says, because of some of the things we see going on in the church. He says that seeing this is a gift that is surely meant to be cultivated by diligent study. There is a tension created when those who see this try to force others to see. Then he says, "We often think of those around us as being asleep, but they are awake in other ways."
Seriously, read the post.